In terms of interpersonal relationships, the difference between flirting and harassment can seem thin. However, this distinction is essential to guarantee the respect and safety of each person. The key to this difference lies mainly in the consent, a concept that is still too often misunderstood or neglected. In this article, we invite you to understand these two concepts in more depth and to understand their implications in our society.
Harassment, an act punishable by law
Harassment is an act of violence, often psychological, which takes place over time. Sexual harassment, for example, manifests itself through comments or behavior towards sexual character repeated attacks that harm the dignity of the person who is the victim. These actions can take different forms: sexist or sexual remarks, inappropriate gestures, blackmail, etc.
penalty incurred for this offense is 2 years’ imprisonment and a fine of 30,000 euros.
Flirting, a respectful approach
Conversely, flirting is intended to be an approach to seduction respectful of the other person. It does not involve inappropriate or insistent gestures or comments, and respects the other’s choice not to be interested. The basis of any healthy relationship, whether friendly or romantic, is based on consent mutual.
However, you should be aware that the line between flirting and harassment can sometimes be blurred. Caroline Haas, co-founder of the association “Feminists Against Cyberharassment”, underlines the importance of this distinction: “Cliding is an interaction based on mutual respect, exchange and consent. Harassment, on the other hand, is an aggression which takes place over time and which is marked by domination and violence. »
The role of society in the fight against harassment
Our society has an important role to play in the fight against harassment. This starts with education, information and raising everyone’s awareness of these issues. It is essential to understand that harassment is not a form of flirting, but a assault.
Sexist contempt, introduced into the penal code in 2018, makes it possible to punish sexist behavior and sexual violence committed in public spaces. In 2024, the advertisement also plays its role by ensuring not to convey sexist stereotypes or scenes with degrading sexual connotations.
Conclusion: Flirting or harassment, it’s up to you to make the difference
To dredge is to show interest in a person, while respecting their feelings and personal space. THE harassment, is a violation of these rights and can have serious consequences for the victims. Learning to distinguish between these two behaviors is essential to ensure respect and dignity for all.
As a society, we have a responsibility to speak out and fight against harassment, in all its forms. It is our duty to educate and raise awareness, in order to put an end to this unacceptable behavior. Let us show empathy, respect and consideration towards others. Finally, respect for consent is not an option, it is a necessity.
